"Look, let’s give it up. Let’s just lay around and make love and take walks and talk a little. Let’s drive down and look at the ocean. It’s only 45 minutes. Let’s play games in the arcades. Let’s go to the races, the Art Museum, the boxing matches. Let’s have friends. Let’s laugh. This kind of life like everybody else’s kind of life: it’s killing us."
Being an atheist is ok. Being an atheist and shaming religion and spirituality as silly or not real is not ok.
Being a Christian is ok. Being a homophobic, misogynistic, racist, or otherwise hateful person in the name of Christianity is not ok. Being a reindeer is ok. Bullying and excluding another reindeer because he has a shiny red nose is not ok.